
Dissecting the Psychological Fears of Couples Regarding Parenthood: Insights from Isfahan’s Couples In 2024
Behrooz Madahian 1, Saeed Karimi 2 ©, Farnia Ranjbar 3, Kimia Pejman-Birjandi 3 ℗
Abstract
Abstract Introduction: The transformation of family structures and lifestyles in urban Iran has led to emerging perspectives and concerns about childbearing. One of the most critical psychological barriers in this regard is the fear and anxiety associated with becoming a parent, which can delay or even prevent couples from making the decision to have children. This study aims to explore and analyze the psychological fears and concerns of married couples in the urban context of Isfahan, Iran, regarding parenthood. Methods and Materials: This qualitative study employed a thematic analysis approach. The participants consisted of married couples residing in Isfahan in 2023, selected through purposive sampling. Data were collected through semi-structured interviews with 50 participants. All interviews were recorded, transcribed, and analyzed using open, axial, and selective coding to identify major themes. Results: Analysis of the data yielded four key themes related to couples’ psychological fears of becoming parents: Fear of inadequacy in parenting skills: Participants expressed concern over lacking the necessary knowledge and abilities for effective child-rearing. Concerns about the child's economic future: Financial uncertainty, rising living costs, and the economic burden of raising a child were significant worries. Fear of repeating negative parental patterns: Some participants reported that adverse experiences with their own parents contributed to fear of replicating similar behaviors. Anxiety over the burden of parental responsibilities: A sense of overwhelming responsibility and fear of not meeting cultural and societal expectations were cited as deterrents. Conclusion and Discussion: Psychological fears surrounding parenthood among urban couples in Isfahan are rooted in a complex interplay of individual, familial, economic, and cultural factors. Without adequate psychological and social support, these fears may become major obstacles to childbearing. Addressing these concerns through supportive policies and interventions can enhance couples’ mental well-being and increase their willingness to embrace parenthood. This article is derived from a research project approved by the Research Ethics Committee of Isfahan University of Medical Sciences under the code IR.MUI.NUREMA.REC.1403.054.
Keywords: Childbearing; Psychological fear; Parenthood; Urban lifestyle; Isfahan